Say what you mean and mean what you say

Say what you mean and mean what you say. That’s really all I ask. I am so tired of the passive aggressive behavior that people have seemed to adopt these days. Why does no one feel the need to really come out and say what they want? I don’t read minds, it isn’t a gift that I want nor one I possess. If you want something done a certain way then TELL ME! If you are upset about something then TELL ME!! I hate trying to figure out what people want or what they mean when they say something and then I get crap for “reading too much into thing” and I want to scream, “YOU MADE ME THIS WAY!!” It is your fault I read into things because if I didn’t I would have no idea what the hell is going on.

Why is it that you are damned if you do and damned if you don’t? I try not to over think things but then when I let them go it turns out that was the comment I should have read into because now the person who made it is pissed because I didn’t read between the lines. I can’t take it anymore. It drives me up a fing wall. The other thing I can’t stand are people who are upset with a person and rather than tell them they are upset they either ignore them or say “It’s fine” or “whatever”. Obviously it isn’t fine and obviously I am going to have no idea what to do with the comment of “Whatever”. Once again, not a mind reader! This isn’t just in the personal aspect of my life, this is work, school, and personal. What happened to straight forward people? Now straight forward people are “mean”. I would rather be mean than a twit that won’t say what they actually mean. Just saying.